Questions
Before you arrive
The things people most often want to know. If yours is not here, write to us and ask.
Do I have to be a member to attend?
Some evenings are open to guests, others are for members only. Each event page says which it is.
What happens at a vetting call?
A relaxed fifteen minute video conversation. We want to understand what draws you to Nocturnal and how you think about consent and discretion. There are no correct answers.
I am nervous about my first event. What should I expect?
That you will be welcomed and that nothing is expected of you. Many people spend a first evening talking and watching. That is a complete night.
What should I wear?
Every event page carries a dress code. When in doubt, dress for the room rather than the theme.
How is my privacy protected?
Discretion runs both ways. Phones and cameras stay away unless an event says otherwise, and what you see stays in the room.